The problem with spanking is that light swats to the bottom sometimes escalate after repeated failure at curtailing inappropriate behavior. As parents’ frustration and anger builds, the potential for abuse increases no matter how loving a parent.

More alarming, in 1991, in an issue of Violence and Victims, Harold Grasmick, Robert Bursik Jr., and M’lou Kimpel of the University of Oklahoma revealed "the child abuse rate for parents who approve of corporal punishment is four times the rate of child abuse for parents who do not approve of corporal punishment."

Right Ways to Discipline

Prevention is the first step in dealing with problem behavior. When you childproof your home, protect it as well as your child by placing breakables and untouchables out of reach.

For infants and toddlers, distraction often works best. Offer a toy or something to distract your child from what she can’t have or a tantrum that’s underway.